When I first joined BHM, I was on every Natural Hair and Hair Growth thread searching for a cure to the incessant breakage and dryness my kinky, coily, highly-textured tresses were suffering.  I was deep-conditioning weekly with heat, still dry.  I moisturized and sealed with oil, still dry. I slept with a shower cap on to keep my hair moist, but alas my hair remained dry and even worse it became more tangled.  At this point, I was about four to five months into my natural hair journey.  A relaxer or texturizer looked great to me at this point.  But, I decided to hold off.  I enjoyed my hair and the...