In the August 2012 issue of Essence in which she is featured on the cover, Nia Long discusses her life, her long career, and a bit about hair! Per the actress’s request, the interview was conducted at a raw vegan restaurant, of which she evidently is a regular patron. The opening paragraph includes a quote by Nia:
“Eating this way is helping me to feel better than I have in my whole life. I’m in my forties, postbaby and I’m thinner than I’ve been in years…The last step will be letting my hair go natural. That’s when you’ll know I’m free.” (Essence August 2012)
Aroo? I was with ya sistah gurl all the way up until the last statement. I do realize that there are many different views on unrelaxed Black hair and just as many reasons as to why people decide to embark on a natural hair journey – all of which I respect. However, as important as my hair is to me (and it is!), not once have I thought whether I continue to relax or decide to grow it out naturally that it would in any way be the punctuation mark on my life the way Ms. Long seems to view it. I am all for healthy living – trust me, everyone who is a part of my offline life knows that is paramount to me – but what defines my happiness, shows my growth, and propels me forward into being the person I know I will become is my spirituality. Eating well, exercising, growing healthy hair – relaxed or natural – and taking care of my body are all important, but if my spirit is not in alignment with God’s will, none of that matters for me. I found it surprising that not once in the entire interview did Nia talk about her faith. And to say the last step will be to go natural – does hair really hold that much power over your life? And, if you have such an appreciation for natural hair and fully intend to become relaxer-free, why not now? Like I said in one of my previous posts, I would think it would be particularly easy for Nia Long because she is already starting with short hair. Perhaps I am reading too much into her quote and maybe all she meant was that for her natural living includes living as organically as possible, which applies to hair and maybe even face, body and makeup products. And if that is the case, I get it, I really do. But to read the first part of the quote, I certainly didn’t expect it to end with going natural to be the icing on the cake without any acknowledgement of whatever God she chooses to serve. And that, I can’t get with. All of the naturality (yes I totally made that word up) in the world on the outside doesn’t mean anything without HIM taking care of my inside. That’s my two cents.
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